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Conflict Resolution as a part of a True self-defense.

Safe Defense is the result of my experience in self-defense, conflict resolution and mediation.  I was bullied violently in a California middle school by a student athlete. I have known that fear. In my early 20's I found martial arts and took to it like a dry sponge in water. I got my first Black belt in 1984 and purchased my teacher's (Hanchi Bruce Juchnik) 2 commercial schools and ran them until I suffered knee injury.  The system I studied was Kosho Shorei Kenpo which promoted the idea of 'True' self-defense as protecting yourself without injuring the attacker. 


In 1998 I co-founded the Peace Learning Center (PLC)  in Indianapolis  hoping  to  use  the  non-violent  approach  to  self  protection that  Kosho’s  True  self-defense  promoted. As the Director of our Peace Education prgm for 10 years I developed their peace education program: STEP.  And after PLC, I evolved it into PeaceDNA.  Because PeaceDNA is the central skill set in what is now Safe Defense, there is now a solid and reliable bridge between FOULing, Fighting Back and Creating Peace Agreement.


At the PLC I served as General Manager for the first 2 years, then as Director of Peace Education Program for 8 more. Over the 10 years, the  program directly served over 8,000  Indianapolis  Public School  youth  mandated  to  our  field-trip  program  serviced  by  AmeriCorp  volunteers.    My  final 2 PLC  years I started up and managed  a satellite school (PLC North) in Lawrence IN.  In those  2 years we directly served 1,200 public school students. 


I've several Certifications and Qualifications in various  Karate styles  and in Conflict Resolution  including 40/hr Community Mediation, Restorative Justice Conferencing, Help Increase the Peace Program (HIPP)  and  Prem  Rawat’s  program.    I've actively served as formal mediator and session coordinator for Indianapolis Juvenile Court system (1999) and community witness in several Restorative Justice sessions.  


I personally feel an obligation to make clear what is True Self Defense.  A 'True' self-defense means to  protect  yourself  without  injuring  your  attacker (J. Mitose). How to stay  safe  and navigate Conflict to Peace Agreement.  My unique background of martial arts and Conflict Resolution have inspired a unique and comprehensive curriculum for learning  how to be a real-world Peacemaker...for yourself and others.  Safe Defense is a safe and common language for everyone.


What I believe is this...

My thinking around Peace DNA is that many people just need a simple map of what to do in Conflict to reach a Peace Agreement. They need to know how things work. I  believe  that when  we  have a recipe or Critical Path for understanding how the Peace  process works,  people  will eagerly  use  it.  To  that end I developed PeaceDNA,  made up of 6 Guiding Questions  that we can rely on every time.  A  Path that builds and supports confidence, purpose and control through  knowledge…Safe  Defense  knowledge.  These  attributes that  lead  to  confidence for  using a Peaceful  approach rather than an aggressive, combative way.  This unique combination is what I consider a True self defense skill set. 


Obviously, not all conflict is dangerous but sometimes it is and you can't talk your way out. I do have a strong martial arts background and have put together, Peace Moves which is not a counter-attack defense but a strategy of kinesthetic invisibility.  An 'always out-of-reach' strategy, using Position and Timing. You move the target with 2-footed hopping technique to create and maintain a 'no reach' zone, ending each sequence with the FOUL Buster question: "Stop, what's the problem?"  It's also a good advantage from which to strike, if needed.   



So what is a True Self-defense?

A wise man (and 21st bloodline descendant) James Mitose wrote: "True self defense is to protect yourself without injuring your attacker."  This challenge of not harming my attacker seemed at first ridiculous to the  martial artist in me.   Why spend my time practicing martial arts self-defense  if I'm going to try and talk my way through whatever it was? Shouldn't I be practicing that?


Surprisingly there was nothing helpful I could find when it came to non-violent self-defense besides escape.  I put Peace Moves together for the purpose of fixing that. Staying unharmed without fighting back and using a de-escalation FOUL Buster, followed with PeaceDNA (if desired), leads to Peace Agreement. Peace Moves uses natural movement and requires much less practice to use.  

Certifications

Hachi dan Rank (8th)

Kosho Shorie Authorization

Hachi dan Rank (8th)

Sho dan Rank (1st)

Kosho Shorie Authorization

Hachi dan Rank (8th)

Kosho Shorie Authorization

Kosho Shorie Authorization

Kosho Shorie Authorization

40 hr Mediation

Restorative Justice Conferencing

Kosho Shorie Authorization

Help Increase the Peace Prgm

Restorative Justice Conferencing

Restorative Justice Conferencing

Restorative Justice Conferencing

Restorative Justice Conferencing

Restorative Justice Conferencing

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